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The Power of a positive mindset.

The Power of a positive mindset.

The only one who can destruct you completely is yourself; this is what my mother always told me since I was seven years old. I remember the day my history teacher said straight in my face that I will never pass his subject, I had no power to argue and say straight in his face that I will never fail, I just said it to myself, “I will never fail your subject even if it takes sacrificing others, If I have to pass one, I will pass yours”

Motivation

That’s the motivation right there, you will always do what you say to yourself, and you will always fail it that is what you say to yourself. My teacher never realized how much his negative words turned to be my positive motivation, he also never realized how much harder I worked to prove him wrong, of course I proved him wrong in the finish, when I became the best student of his subject of all time after two years, and at the closing date, I thanked him in public that he made me a best student by saying what he did I hope he understood what I meant.

I know all of you guys have heard that the negative things you keep hearing will take them down; I agree for some reasons and disagree for some points. If you are always positive on yourself, you have the great asset in your brain and personal development irrespective of all those negative beings surrounding you. So I truly believe the power is yours it all depends how you use your environment.

Successful people struggle too

It’s obvious that everyone needs to be acknowledged but under no illusion the successful people that we envy today, had many negative influences than we experience also. I always try to become calm when someone says to me you can’t do that, you will not achieve; I take another breath exhale and say deep in my core I can do it , I will do it and then set a strategy to achieve it, because I don’t want someone to come back saying “I told you, you would never do it”. Guys always remember we put a man on the moon in the sixties.

Look guys, you will always be told negative words irrespective of how successful you are, train your brain to respond fast, because there are these bad people who say you can’t, they know they cannot do what you want to do, that’s why they say you cant. Do not worry about them, are the ones that can’t do it, they are just afraid to be winners. As wining requires discipline, belief  and work and they do not have the correct mindset ,so they try to bring you down.

In any niche, the successful person had hard times to go through, Think about Lincoln who went in a war as a captain and came as a private; That was a bitter pill to swallow, it was demotion, but he stood up, and later on he found the way and actually led everyone who did not believe in him initially.

Think about Churchill who had failed countless exams and elections during his career and later on he stood on his feet and said no way I can be defeated.

So now guys look how much mindset does it take to prove yourself that you are the real winner and not a loser? Winning comes from within, believe that, practice it and do not worry what others say or think. Keep in mind people are fickle and the great news is the power is in your hands and no one else. So see it believe it today.

Wise words “being born alive is a proof that you are a winner”

I remember my fitness trainer always told me, being born alive is a proof that you are a winner. So Guys, with this short post I just wanted to remind you to remain or get focused on being positive motivated at all times, the negativity has to be controlled and eradicated and then you shall stand as a winner.

Tell your mind that you are the winner, do self-motivation and never wait for someone to wake you up and tell you can do it, or you can’t. Give your mind   food of thought, give it a support in your actions, be a person of decision and actions on decisions you take.

Stop obsessing on what people are thinking about you, let them think. Smile to any negativity, knock it down as it won’t be your first win, you are the winner from birth.

You face hardship, if you are positive at all the time, you will find the solution or the way. Look you either will push the wall until it falls or will go around if you need to, all because you have a positive mindset and can only see solutions.

So guys I believe in you, you are a winner, Go get it.

Written by: Dimmy Winston Kanyankole

Contributor : Colm McGill